Thursday, March 24, 2011

How to Network: 12 Tips for Shy People



 The magazine CIO, December 11, 2007, edition, (www.cio.com/article/print/164300) has an article by Meridith Levinson that provides the following tips for networking:
1.    Start Small – Begin your networking efforts by seeking out familiar faces, such as relatives and friends.
2.    Stop Apologizing – You do not have to apologize for asking for help or wanting to learn more about another person.
3.    Be Yourself – Many introverted professionals think that they have to act like an extrovert. You do have to make an effort, but you should not appear artificial.
4.    Tap Into Your Passion – You should join clubs and attend events that relate to your interest or activity such as attending sporting events.
5.    Ask for Introductions – You should be the first to introduce yourself to others.
6.    Be Generous – You should share your ideas with others by contributing your experience in the conversation.
7.    Be Prepared – You should have in mind several responses to typical questions such as how is your job search going or how are you spending you day.
8.     Follow-Up – It is important that you follow-through on what you have said to someone. For example, if you said you would provide a name and telephone number, you need to email or call the person with the information.
9.    Get Over Your Rejection – You will find people who do not want to help you or care about your situation.  In such cases, move on down the road.  As I say sometimes see a new round of cards.
10. Take Risks – You should be willing to make the first step to begin a conversation. You never know where a simple statement as “how is your day going?” may lead.
11. Seek a Shrink – The article suggests if all else fails, you might see a therapist.  My suggestion is that you find a mentor, close friend, or spouse to discussion your feelings and concerns.  Sometimes when you verbalize your thinking, a plan of action will result.

 Please share with readers of this blog your experience with networking.
Thanks!  Glyn    


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